HI.
I know, it's been awhile. But I've been busy.
Last night at a family dinner, we toasted J's mother's birthday with her and CAD.
After dinner, CAD interrupted our winding down conversation to say

 I want to say s
omething that is personal
But you know with me,
that's fair game.

I know you are thinking about starting a family soon.
(not that soon, I interrupt)

you might want to
think about
working out. ...

Of course, I interrupted her and said, that no she does not have the privilege of having that kind of conversation with me, that only my mother, sisters, and J can talk with me about my body.

But she kept going, and the 3 of us kept interrupting her. J and his mom were mortified. I was indignant. Then they left.

It's innappropriate on multiple levels-
1. you don't get to talk about my body
2. we do not have a relationship wherein you talk about my body or pregnancy. I don't like to hug you, usually.
3. you are trying to point out that my MIL can't offer me advice because she adopted, but you can because you had a demonchild. You are not my MIL, nor my own mother. F off.